Friday, January 8, 2010

Welcome Annabell Grace Homan





I am pleased to announce the birth of our daughter, Annabelle Grace Homan, born December 27th, 2009 at 11:13pm, weighing 5lbs 15oz, and 19.5 inches long. She is absolutely as sweet as pie. For a little thing, she is super strong! She holds her head up and looks all around her. She has a full head of hair, and the cutest darn face you ever did see.








We are home now, and doing pretty well. I am breastfeeding and that is going fairly well. At first Annabelle's weight dropped lower than they wanted. It was thought that she dropped all the way down to 5lbs 1oz. However, the scale at the doctor's office had a low battery and would not zero out correctly. I think it was off. We met with the lactation consultant that same day in hopes that I was breastfeeding her correctly, and that she was getting a full meal when she fed. Their scale read 5.5 for her weight, and she had gained the correct amount of weight after her feeding. So I felt relieved. Our last appt on Tuesday revealed her weight of 6lbs! Way to go Annabelle! The girl likes to eat. She kept Mommy up most of the night last night. Daddy tried to intervine, but this time she wanted her Mommy. So, needless to say, I am pretty sleepy. I hope this blog makes sense.








Labor Story!




So on Saturday the 26th, Michael and I went to the gym to work out. I jogged about 4 miles. We decided to go to the Saturday night service at church instead of the Sunday service. I'm glad we did! I remember feeling lots of pelvic pressure and lots of braxton Hicks contractions. No biggie though, cuz I had had these for the past 3 weeks! I was trying not to get my hopes up. Michael and I went out to dinner after church and then home. A little before midnight, after we had gone to bed, I noticed these Braxton Hicks were about 5 minutes apart and getting a little stronger. I laid in bed for an hour and watched the clock. This went on for an hour before Michael woke up. I told him that the contractions were getting stronger. We broke out the stop watch, and I breathed my way through each contraction. After 2 hours of contractions, we called our midwife. She said we could come in or stay home until the contractions were about 2-3 minutes apart and stronger. We opted to stay home. About 2 hours later, I had had my bloody show, and it seemed like my water had ruptured, as I kept leaking after going to the bathroom. The contractions were stronger and 2-4 minutes apart. We decided to head to the hospital. After being checked in, the contractions were a little more irregular and I was only dilated to 1-2cm. Still 80% effaced. I was discouraged. But, they wanted to keep me, because they tested me to see if I was in fact leaking amniotic fluid. I was, so we were told that we would be staying. This was all around 5:30am. We began walking the halls, timing contractions. They were getting stronger and stronger, and I had to stop walking between them and breathe. I noticed pain in my lower back. This area hurt the most. Our midwife was wonderful. She encouraged our walking and trying different labor positions. Our nurse, wanted us on the monitor. They were butting heads, but of course our midwife got the last word and we were able to move around. By 10:30, the contractions were so strong and painful that I wanted to lay down on my side. I was only dilated to a 2-3. So frustrating. My back was really hurting. At noon the contractions were even more painful, but I was not progressing at all. We decided to go ahead and break my bag of waters fully in hopes that our little peanut would progress faster. My contractions were almost unbearable. At certain points they were 1 minute apart and 1 minute long. Because I was having back labor, I didn't really get the relief in between contractions. I was trying my best to breathe through them, but they would come on so fast, that I couldn't keep up with them. Michael was wonderful. We tried everything to get the pressure off of my back. I tried the birth ball, sitting on the toilet, all fours, numerous positions in bed and walking. Nothing worked. During one contraction, Michael, who had been placing pressure on my lower back for relief, heard his own back pop. That's right, he threw his back out and was in horrible pain. Around 5pm our midwife checked me again, and I was only dilated 4-5cm. Baby would not drop down, because she was posterior. At this point, I couldn't take the pain anymore. I couldn't relax or breathe through anything. I hadn't slept in 36 hours, and Michael was in pain as well. I was moaning, and grunting and loud I'm sure, trying to get the pain out of my body. I finally cried to Michael that I needed an epidural. Within 15 minutes, the epidural was in place, and the contractions were much less intense. After another 15 minutes, I couldn't feel them. I could relax and Michael could relax! Finally some relief. By 8:30 Annabelle still wasn't progressing. I was still at 5cm. They started me on a low dose of Pit. About another hour or 2 passed. Time for another check. By this point I was worried that Annabelle, would end up being delivered via C-section. I prayed and prayed for God to turn her. He heard my prayers and when my nurse checked me I was at 9.5 cm with a lip of cervix left, and Annabelle was in position. Time to push. I had to wake Michael! He held my leg back for me, and counted to 10 for me with each push! After 40 minutes, Annabelle was out! I was sure she was a boy. Michael said she was a girl! I thought that he didn't see the baby's anatomy right! But when they laid her on my chest, I saw that she was in fact an ADORABLE little girl with tons of dark hair and wide eyes looking right at me. Michael cried, and I was so thankful that it was over and that she was here! Welcome to the world little one!

With her buddy Logan, who is just 3 months older!

Sleeping Beauty!

First Day Home!

Tuesday, December 22, 2009

39 weeks (Quick Update)

We had our midwife appointment today. Some progress, but not as much as I had hoped. I'm now 80% effaced, baby is way low, and I have basically lost most of my mucous plug. GROSS! Anyway, I'm still contracting away, but nothing really regular or strong enough.

I work tomorrow and Christmas Eve, unless something happens. I feel like a "time bomb" or something. Blah! I hope I don't have to make a 40 week post!

Sunday, December 20, 2009

Patience, Patience, Patience... 38.4 weeks pregnant

I think the worst thing about being at the end of a pregnancy, is having your body go through so many changes EXCEPT for the big change - Having the baby. Ugggg.... it's such a tease. I continue to have the abdominal cramping, some lower back aches, pelvic pressure, and braxton hicks. The strongest braxton hicks were on Thursday. After my last blog, I had another 40 minute stretch of contractions about 5 minutes apart and then they stopped. Since then, they have been mild and irregular. I think it would almost be easier if I was having no early labor signs, to obsess over and just jumped straight into labor. I worked on Friday after being up all night the night before. I still can't sleep! Our census dropped at work, and luckily, I was placed on call for Saturday. I was able to get a good night's rest on Friday - 10 hours! Yesterday, I tried to keep myself occupied. I jogged 3 miles, walked 3 miles, we greeted at church last night, went out to dinner. I had some "Drunkin Noodle" YUM at Thai house - very spicy! I have basically everything that we need for baby! Clothes are washed and folded, hospital bag mostly packed, house scrubbed and cleaned last week - floors, bathrooms, guest room! I'm ready for company, ready for Christmas, and ready for BABY! Baby is just not ready for us yet! :( Michael has his heart set on a Christmas day baby. It's so funny that to me that seems way too far away, but it would be the best birthday present for him. So... I will wait, as if I have a choice.

We have another appointment on Wednesday morning. I will update again, unless..... :)

Wednesday, December 16, 2009

Chunk may be a Christmas baby after all!

As of last Friday, I began having lower abdominal cramping and lots of pressure. On Saturday while I was at work, it was worse. The cramps felt like menstrual cramps. They have remained constant throughout the last few days. I've had lots of Braxton Hicks contractions as well. I'm going to the bathroom a lot more too. EIGHT times one night!

Anyway, I think baby has REALLY dropped this time. We had a midwife appointment today, and my curiosity got the best of me, and I let them do a cervical check. First, I measured 35cm! Last week I measured 38 I think! Baby dropped 3cm in one week! HR was the lowest it's ever been 120s-130s! I explained about the cramping and pressure. She checked me and baby is engaged and I'm 60% effaced! My cervix is also anterior now and she said opened a little (not sure what that means)! I'm also releasing small parts of my mucous plug, which she had on her hand afterwards. Sorry if TMI. She was really excited and said that all of these are signs of early labor!

Well, Chunk could be here before you know it! I'm trying to not get too excited, because I have friends who have remained in this situation for a good few weeks! But, it's encouraging to know that things are moving along!

Wednesday, December 9, 2009

37 weeks!

I am officially considered full term! That being said, I could still have another 4-5 weeks to go. Uggg... for first time Mommies, the average length of gestation is 41 weeks and 2 days. That could put me as far away as January 8th before having our little "chunk". AND, "chunk" is packing on the pounds! I measured 39cm today and my midwife guessed around 7 pounds for weight! I gained 3lbs in one week! I don't really care, because I am still exercising and have been watching what I eat. If I gain, I gain and will have a healthier little bundle!

I'm feeling pretty good. Yesterday was a GREAT day. Michael has been going to the gym with me to work out, so that has made me more encouraged to go. Yesterday I ran 4 miles in 44 minutes and felt great! I think I had a head cold last week, so I had felt like a giant slug. Now I'm getting my energy back! However, my biggest issue with this pregnancy continues to be insomnia! I just can't sleep more than 4-6 hours it seems in a night. I wake up every morning between 4-6am, and can't fall back asleep. Plus, I feel like I'm starving and just have to have a bowl of cereal. Well, hopefully I'll get enough sleep before I go into labor!

Thursday, December 3, 2009

36 weeks - Santa baby, just slip a baby under the tree, FOR ME!

Less than 4 weeks to go... well until my due date. I can't believe how fast and slow this is going. I am really starting to feel the pregnancy now. The last few days, I've been pretty exhausted. I'm still working, but on the days I'm not, I spend my time recovering. It's amazing how tired I am. I think part of this is due to my constant interrupted sleep pattern at night. I wake up every 2-3 hours to potty and then, usually around 4am I can't fall back asleep. Ugggg... and I know it gets worse after baby is here. I'm not much fun for Michael, but he has been very supportive of me.

Yesterday we went to a Christmas party, and I slipped on ice outside and fell. Imagine I giant prego flying through the air, landing on her back side (good thing my butt is extra padded right now) and then I really couldn't get up! I just laid on the ground, rolling side to side trying to muster the strength to get up, my ginger bread cookies ruined (of which Michael frosted for me), and tears were brimming in my eyes. So humiliating, well, at the time. It's kind of funny now looking back. Michael was SO sweet and so concerned, and I just love him so much. I'm so thankful for him. I'm truly blessed with a wonderful man! I can't wait to see him as a Daddy! He'll be great! Anyway, I'm fine. Not a single bruise. But I don't walk outside at all unless my man is there to hold on to... at least while there is snow outside.

We had another midwife appointment yesterday. HR is 141. I'm measuring right on target. I had my first cervical check, since they were checking anyway for group B-strep. I have been feeling so much pressure down there at times, and I have been having lots of Braxton Hicks. No news. I'm -2 station, cervix closed and while baby is head down and in good position, not yet engaged. This means I'll be at least 2 more weeks for sure! Baby hasn't really dropped yet like I thought. Oh, well. More time in the oven is good for chunk, no matter how impatient and cranky I get.

Michael got the lights up on the house! I LOVE Christmas! He did a great job! Check it out:
















Wednesday, November 25, 2009

35 Weeks!

I'm still feeling pretty good! My only main issue, is that I have developed a pregnancy rash I think. I have these little bumps on my chest, some on my abdomen, and on my back. They look like I'm breaking out with acne, except that they ITCH like the dickens. I'm fortunate so far that I haven't gotten any stretch marks! I do have a very faint Linea nigra on my abdomen. Lot's of contractions too! Nothing regular though, and they aren't painful. Yesterday, when I was out for my jog, I felt some "leaking". It actually only happened one time. I was a little nervous that it was amniotic fluid. I was thinking that as much as I'd love to see my baby, he/she needs to cook at least a few more weeks. I determined, it must have been urine, since it only happened one time. I think baby has dropped, I feel "lower" and everyone keeps telling me I look "lower". Lot's of pressure.

Last week I mentioned that I thought I was starting to lactate! I definitely am! I have felt the "let-down" sensation several times. It feels like a tingling sensation in my nipples. Once I felt it in the shower, and was able to express some milk out of my breasts. It's amazing how God has created our bodies to support another life. What a gift!

So much to do still! We need to pack our bag, set up our hospital tour, and decide on a pediatrician. This is actually the hard part, since Michael and I are VERY undecided about certain kinds of vaccinations. We definitely DO NOT want the Hep B vaccine when the baby is born. I for sure want to delay it, and may not want it at all. So, we need to find someone who will be more flexible about the medical model of vaccines. There is quite a bit of controversy over the Hep B vaccine given right after birth, as the baby has not yet full developed their central nervous system. The ingredients in the vaccine have been linked to autism (thimerisal) and Alzheimer's (aluminum).

Back to the Hospital!
So, after SEVERAL hours on the phone with our insurance company, and 6 different answers and being transferred who knows how many times, it was finally decided that there was no way to determine if they would cover the actual birth at the birth center. UGGGG.... this was SO frustrating, as I thought I had all my ducks in a row. I'm a naive girl I guess. Anyway, we are back with our previous Midwifery group and will be delivering at the North Suburban Medical center after all. They were very gracious and understanding about our attempts to go to the birth center and took us back, no questions. I guess I was afraid they wouldn't take us back or something (hahaha... Christmas baby with no room in the inn)! We just don't want to get stuck with a $1600 bill after baby is born (which was a possibility at the birth center) and for sure everything is covered at the hospital.

Well, I think that is it for this week. I can't believe how fast all this is going. Happy Thanksgiving everyone!